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Thank you for your answer. Yes I think you're right it's the right decision to make. I will try to have another in depth conversation with him before deciding to do. And thank you! Japan is beautiful and I have so much to discover

You are so right about that. This isn't the first time he had doubts about his feelings but at that time I had managed to give him reassurance (?sorry english is not my native language) but it is really exhausting. I really love him but still I think I need someone who is sure about his feelings and who I can rely on. This relationship is too much of a rollercoaster.

Thank you for your answer 🥺 It's difficult because we talked about our future together a lot but now he says that he can't project himself anymore, that maybe he is too immature for me etc. I am slowly adaptating here even if the 4 girls from my uni who came here made it clear they don't really want to spend time with me. But that's okay I am making acquaintances and I am getting used to loneliness.

My bf (20m) and I (23f) are on a temporary LDR as I am studying in another country for 5 months, with a time difference of 7 hrs. It's been only one month but he's already saying he is losing feelings for me. He feels really guilty about it, and I must say that in general he is often brooding, moody, is very sensitive and a big overthinker. When I left we were together for 10 months, we were very much in love even if we were getting comfortable, maybe the "honeymoon" phase was over. Now I can tell smtg has changed : he is not as caring as before, as interested in the conversation, and he is not sending love notes anymore. Yesterday night I couldn't help going back to the topic, we cried a lot and he was feeling very guilty for hurting me, saying he only wanted my happiness, but this time I managed to reassure him, tell him it was okay, that I wasn't going to kill myself if he broke up and that I would heal, and if it wasn't meant to be then que sera sera. I told him I would stop reproaching him he wasn't invested enough in our texts, that he was always waking up at noon, that I would stop asking about his feelings, that we could send less texts and see how he feels. But it's hard to act normally now for me because I am afraid and a distance has been created btwn us. Even if we had issues in the past, I don't want to lose him. What can I do ? Do you think it's leading to a breakup ?