I've been casually seeing this guy for almost a year now. We agreed from the beginning to keep it casual/FWB. I've explained to him in past conversations that a boundary of mine is that if either of us gets into a relationship to let each other know, as I prefer to be sexually monogamous. Last night we went to a mutual friend's birthday party, and afterwards we hooked up & spent the night together. We cuddled all night & morning, and after I left his apt he sent me a text saying he had a lot of fun, thanking me for coming over. Meanwhile, I did a little bit of social media snooping and discovered he's seemingly in a long distance relationship with another girl. He hasn't posted any pics of her to his page, but there's a picture of them together on HER page and it's very obvious they're a couple. I want to respond to his message in a way that acknowledges I had fun, but that I know about his gf and basically break things off with him. Is this a good text to send?
"yeah I had a lot of fun but I was wondering if you think we should continue to see each other? I like you a lot but I've noticed that you're dating (*insert other girls name*), and it makes me question if I should still be seeing you. She's so beautiful and I don't want to be the reason that she's not getting your full attention. And please don't worry; I won't ever tell her about us as I have no intention of breaking apart a relationship. I care about your happiness and I don't wanna complicate things or be in a situation where I feel like a side chick. If circumstances change in the future, maybe we can reconnect."
Should I send this or should I just go ghost?
