ElementalMuse

I am in somewhat of a similar situation except the man is very competent and appealing. However he has no children and all his discretionary money goes to his ex wife. he loves my place and that I have a career and cook and nice place and he loves being around me. I work twice as much as he does and really can only manage one over night a week. I think it sounds like you enjoy some parts of his company yet you are more competent an independent. Enjoy your children as well. Mine are older and I would do anything to have time with them at that age. Have a straightforward conversation and let him do as he pleases. I can tell you wil be fine either way.