Moondoll

That's a valid point! She's confided in me about so many things too, and I haven't repeated any of it. I acknowledge my mistakes, but I also believe she shares some responsibility. Why didn't she inform her partner when I first told her, instead of waiting an entire YEAR? It just doesn't add up.

My boyfriend called last week to let me know that my brother-in-law accused me of saying negative things about him. One of the issues raised was that he's a ladies' man, something he mentioned to me in confidence about a year ago, and I shared with my sister before their marriage. He's upset because my brother-in-law also disclosed this to their mutual friends. My boyfriend only confided in me because I asked about it at the time, knowing my sister was serious about marrying him (my now brother-in-law) What troubles me is that I recently shared with my sister how close my boyfriend and I have become and that we're considering getting engaged soon. Why would she bring up these old issues now, after a year? Is she trying to cause problems for me? When I confronted her about it, she said its her husband and she had to tell him. She has a whole year to share it with him - why now?

It was my brother-in-law. I would think so, considering he felt the need to confront him over something that was said a year ago.

I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now, and he's recently been discussing future plans, including the possibility of engagement. Excited about this, I turned to my sister for advice since she recently got married and knows my boyfriend well, as her husband shares some mutual friends. She encouraged me to move forward and seemed genuinely happy for me. However, a few days later, my boyfriend called me upset because he received a call from my sister's husband accusing him of talking behind his back. In theearly stages of our relationship, my boyfriend to me that my sister’s husband (not at the time) was a bit of a ladies man," which I mentioned to my sister as she was getting serious with him, just advising her to be cautious. This happened over a year ago, and I'm puzzled as to why both my sister and her husband are now bringing so much unnecessary drama. I'm concerned that my boyfriend may no longer trust me