Myself (27) and my girlfriend (25) have dated for just over 5 years. We broke up for around 2 months 3 years in to allow me to work through poor mental health and grieve a family loss. It felt mutual. After that we became stronger and began to live together for just over a year. My girlfriend then started her masters and we became long distance for the last 5 months. We spent the holidays together and was great. She abruptly ended things over the phone saying she needed to feel alone and independent. We met a week later and had a long conversation which was productive. We shared some laughs and tears. She spoke about some co dependency we have. I shared that I view her as a life partner but agreed no contact was the best path forward. A few days later her family texted me individual saying they were sorry to hear and here for me.
A few days after that, she accidentally messaged me and hoped I was doing well. Another two weeks past of no contact, and I reached out to see if we could meet in a mutual point as I knew both be in the same area. She responded by saying it is too soon for any meet up, but said if it was urgent she would talk. I respected her and said I understand and went back into NC. She is under pressure in her studies and wasn’t doing the best mentally before hand.
I feel confident and hopeful as she hasn’t fully shut any doors. I really love her and have told her I see my life with her and am flexible to work through any problems or support her. Our families love each other as well.
How do you think I should approach this situation? Should I reach out again in a few weeks? I think deep down she knows our relationship was not the problem and maybe this gives us time to work on ourselves before we truly commit to the next level.