Hi all. Just want to hear others take on this. Being with my fiance 6 years,engaged for nearly 5. We have both been divorced, grown up adult kids,his nearby,both mine abroad. I moved in with him after we got engaged (to a rental). I have my own house an hour away. He bought a huge derelict house about 7 months after we started dating. We have been working on it for nearly 4 years now (well he took an 8 month break or more to build his daughters house). I help as much as I can, and have assisted and helped him a lot over the years. (I also do all the housework,shopping,cooking,cleaning,laundry which I don't really mind,not an issue). The only bills on the house (other than renovation costs)are groceries,electric and heating. I contribute equally to the first two. My question is..I am unsettled as I have done and continue to help him with the renovation as best and much as I can,and have done a lot ,and it will take another 2 years to complete. I'm starting to really resent a lot of my free time is taken up on it,while his grown kids never help with it. Also,I asked about a will recently,more to know if sonething happened who would organise the build/sale or whatever plus would I need to get out. He saud he will have to make a will which obviously he hadn't changed one from many years ago. Am I right in feeling a little hurt.