So my girlfriend and I have been dating for about 1 year and 1 month. We met last October(2022) and I asked her to be my girlfriend at the end of November (2022). So ever since I met her, everything felt right. Same interests, same ethnic background, my parents love her, her parents love me, even my her family who lives in another country has heard great things about me from her grandma who came to visit the US for the first time. Anyway, during our relationship(in the beginning) she told me about an old guy who she used to like. And I thought whatever, bc we all like someone in our past of course. I know I’m not the first guy she was attracted too. Anyway, not too long ago I was on her phone, specifically instagram, and I scrolled thru her messages and saw she was texting the guy she once liked. I know you may think that I’m being nosy but we both let each other use each others phones, and I was doing it while she was sitting right across me. So I end up looking at her messages and she’s having casual conversation. But I scroll a little higher and the guys is talking about how he wants sex and how he is horny. I was so mad that she was entertaining this guy so I told her about it. She ended up saying nothing was wrong but I told her that it disturbed me and she continued to tell me that she love me only. Anyway, we talk more about this guy and she told me that this guy never gave her the attention back in the day, and she was always sad that he seemed to be only using her to have sex or get to that point. Of course my girlfriend said she never let him get that far so eventually broke things off with him. Then later she met me and completely broke contact with the guy. However, once the guy found out she had a boyfriend which was me, he was trying to take her back. Came to her dorm room and everything. Only thing is that she didn’t tell me about this until a whole year later and that’s because I was asking so many questions. Anyway, we then came to the conclusion that she was going to get rid of all these people who did her dirty by unfollowing so they wouldn’t contact her again. 2 months later tho, I told her what happened to the conclusion. And she told me she has done nothing wrong and that her conscious was clean. Two days later, I have her phone I scroll thru messages and see she was texting the guy again. I’m currently so mad at her and I’ve been thinking about breaking things off. However I really love her and I truly believe she is one of a kind. But I get enraged thinking that she’s only with me to piss off the other guy or because being with me get her his attention.
