Lostboyyo

Blocked her because she acted like she wanted something with me. “Flirting and talking” don’t do it justice. It was basically an “yeah we’re gonna be come exclusive soon”. Accepted money from random guy (whom she discussed seller problems with apparently, because I had NO CLUE about the rent problem at all) , bragged about it in her Snapchat story so I could see. If it was a friend or someone she knew for a while it would be different but this was a guy she literally met the week prior. She’d known me 2 years at this point and was more comfortable asking a random stranger for help? Makes no sense

Edit: not a sugar daddy. Some random guy who just hit her up one day. She said she was “so into me and cared about me so much”, well if that was the case why didn’t she ask me to help? I’d have been more than willing. No, instead she went to some guy she knew for a week maybe? Instead of the guy she knew for 2 years. It makes no sense to me why his money is better than mine? Money means nothing to me, I’d give her double the amount had she asked just cause that’s the kinda guy I am. It’s not the fact she took the money it’s that she posted bragging about it, it’s that she had all opportunity to talk to me, the man she was “investing herself in” instead of the man she just met. That’s what’s the problem here.

I recently started seeing someone that I’ve known for about 4 years. It’s going really well and we care about each other a lot. But I can’t seem to shake something off my mind that happened 2 years ago. In November of 2021 we decided to start flirting with each other and stuff like that. Around a month of us chatting and flirting consistently, she posted a Snapchat story. The story was a notification of someone sending her some money. The caption to said post was flirtatious and had flirty emojis from what I can remember. Because of this, I had assumed it was from another guy and confronted her. We argued and I found out it was another guy, so I blocked her and left. Well she ended up dating this other guy. I found all this out after we started talking again. She says that she wasn’t flirting with this guy at the same time we were. She also says that the post was not flirtatious at all, even though I strongly remember it being that way. She said he was really into her and sent her the money randomly without her asking or anything like that. She needed help with rent but never told me, I would have gladly helped her out but she told him instead of me. She said I was who she wanted to be with and she should have never posted anything about him sending the money. According to her, after I left, a couple weeks after, she ended up getting lonely and started flirting back with him. They ended up officially dating soon after that, not even a month after I had been gone. It truly upsets me because she said she had “really cared about me” back then, but if that was the case, why did she end up with him? If she truly cared wouldn’t she have been upset about me leaving? Wouldn’t she have cut him off after seeing that he was the reason I left? This all just feels like she picked the guy who ruined what we had, and he was rewarded for it. Idk this whole situation feels fishy to me. I just feel like I was slighted and would have been picked over had I not decided to leave. Should I stay and continue this? Would I be a loser with no self respect for staying? Please help. Because right now I feel like nothing but a loser and a second option.