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She wants to be friends with him. She said he was very supportive of her coming out as a lesbian after they dated and even spoke up for her to her parents, which is good and all. But none of that excuses him texting her like that. She doesn’t flirt back but she doesn’t shut it down either. I was okay with the friendship at first but now when I’m seeing stuff like this, this is why I don’t stay friends with my exes because clearly boundaries can’t be respected.

I am a 32 year old female and I have been dating my 33 year old gf for 3 years. We have lived together 2.5 years. She works with and plays on a coed softball team with her ex bf. Over the years I’ve come to learn he will text inappropriately and I have confronted her but it never truly gets changed on his end. She claims she lets him know how I feel but he will do something eventually that pisses me off. What should I do?