VasileiaM.

And I couldn't agree more. I can't disagree with you. Six days passed because I didn't know what he wants. I'm glad I didn't approach him first after I learned the first day that he was interested in me.

Not at all. He only wants hook ups. He learned it the day his friend asked my cousin what I prefer. My cousin told me everything(without tell anyone else or to them) but in this friend told that I don't tell my cousin who is interested in her. Till today these two don't know that I knew what happened. If I see one of them or the two, I will play it cool because they know that I haven't heard anything. Maybe they think that my cousin tell me but they are not sure because he told that I will not tell her. There is no drama like you said.

He told his friend to ask my cousin what I prefer because he didn't want to ask me face to face and so he will learn from another person what I want and it will be more easy for him instead of asking me. For this reason he didn't want to meet me again because he only wanted a hook up and it will be a waste of his time to change my mind. I agree with you that he should have asked me with a nice way to find out.

In a post after this I said that after 6 days I learned that he wanted a hook up. His friend told my cousin he only wants hook ups and never a serious relationships so of course he wouldn't give me a chance to meet again and that he liked me but not enough because I didn't want a hook up and he didn't want dates only to meet for sex and leave. The problem is that he put his friend ask me if I'm single and into serious relationship or one night stand, but his friend knew that he wanted a hook up and didn't say it to my cousin to clear things from the beginning. And the other thing is that he puts his friend to ask girls for hook ups and to sound it better asks if you like relationships, although he obviously wants a hook up. This is not something a third person must know. If he wanted relationship, it was okay, not bad to tell his friend. But not for a hook up because one person would know what would you do if you meet!

To be honest, I thought his interest was real. It was nice to ask me questions about me and ask him too. His face expressions I didn't like. But these experssions was the one I should know his true motives, the way he looked at me. You are so true about the guy approaching me and not put his friends. Third people may complicate things more. You see his friend didn't tell that my friend only wants hook ups with girls and isn't interested for serious relationships. And he didn't have the guts to tell my cousin for 6 days that he doesn't like that your cousin wants something serious, he liked me but not enough because he wanted a hook up!

My cousin have nothing to do with it. And his friend told him to join us for coffee because he wanted someone who knew better than us. All this was not planned. I don't know why he would ask these questions to my cousin, maybe he didn't know me well and thought I don't want something serious and to make his friend happy I guess for his purpose. He should have said that my friend only wants hook ups. I don't know why they would think I want a hook up. I have never flirted with his friend(the one who make the questions to my cousin) and show them I'm easy to flirt with a total stranger.

This is what I was trying to say but you said in the correct way. He puts his friends to ask a girl for sex like you said. I am glad in the coffee I was speaking with him for general stuff. I thought he was a decent man not someone who made questions just for to like him for his purpose. But he kept making weird things with his face like he is someone. This was very awkward the way he did his face and looked at me when doing it. I should have know from this but I thought it was his personality like this.

This is exactly what i mean when i say I don't understand his behaviour. His friend must know that he only likes hook ups. How can you tell your friend to ask me if I want relationship or one night stand(obviously he wanted the hook up question only). It's very inappropriate because the third person would know what you want and maybe tell others too. And as you said about the conversation, you are right. He wanted to ask something so if I agree with his terms to not feel him like a stranger or to make himself seem like a nice and gentle man who cares about me. Of course I wouldn't go for a hook up because I will give him what he wants. He didn't either want a second meet up when he learned I prefer a relationship.

Finally this afternoon I learned from his friend who told my cousin that he wanted a one night stand and when he learned I prefer a relationship he didn't want to meet again and to know me better(of course when the only thing he wants is sex from a woman). So, this is the reason he asked if I want relationship or one night stand. So I was right when I said he could have said he only wants sex. If I knew it from first place, I wouldn't wonder if he really was interested in me. He also told that he really liked me but only for sex and he never wants to be in a serious relationship with any woman only sex with them and leave. I don't understand how he can say that he was interested when he only knew the basics from me! I don't understand this logic of his. He never liked me if he wanted me only for sex and not something serious. He confuses the words.

It's been 5 days so i don't think his interest was real. He could have sent a message to my cousin instead of his friend. He wanted to know what I like in a relationship, he learned that I want something serious but to know the other first and I think for this reason he hasn't say something to his friend. But this is not interest like his friend said, this is I want for one night something to have fun. They confuse the meaning I'm showing real interest to know this person not something quick for one night. False kind of words he used. He could have said to his friend that I don't want to know her more, I want something quick. I'm glad I understand his true feelings about me. I don't want a ***boy in my life who looks at me only for my body and to put me on his list!

It was the first time i met him. My cousin knows both of them and I know the other friend who tell us to bring his friend. I don't think is was a introduction to date. It was by chance that he told his friend to come. No, I didn't exchange contact information with him because he was shy and I think it will be awkward in front of the other two because it was the first time I met him. And he didn't ask the others for contact but I will allow the other two to give my number or social if they ask me. I am interested to know him better first and I see if I date him later.

I am 25 and he is 21. We met through a mutual friend who asked us to bring his friend to sit with us. We spent 2 hours in the cafe and he asked several things about me (what I study, what I do in my free time, etc.). I noticed that he was copying my movements as well. I put my jacket on, he puts it on with me, I put my hand on my face, he did it too. When I had to leave I said hello and nice to meet him and he didn't say anything back. Later his friend caught my cousin and told him if your cousin is single and if she is for serious relationship or one night stand. My cousin told him I will ask her to tell you if she is single and he says why are you asking me these things and his friend replies that his friend is interested in me. My cousin asked me and at night he sends him a message so that he can send them to his friend that I am single and I prefer serious relationship as long as I get to know the other person well. Since then 3 days have passed and he still hasn't sent to tell us if his friend wants us to meet. I don't know what to do since I don't know the other person well and I don't see them every day. I don't even want to message him on social media since I'm not supposed to know he likes me (my cousin told me not to pin him).