Poppy123

Things got out of hand yesterday and he totally turned on me so bad that I had to call police he was charged and now on bail but not aloud near me or where I stay , I never ever thought he would get as bad as that, thanks for all the support really means a lot to me as I feel talking to people who don’t really know me does help thanks again

Hey that is what I’m going to do , I’m going to leave him, I’m not wanting to live a life in relationship with no trust, he is trying to talk to me as if nothing has happened, maybe his way of thinking I will whirl back into his lies and forgive him, but I’m not putting up with this anymore, feel as if I’ve been on my own long enough so I know I can do it x

Thank you for you’re message, I know what you mean I was silly for forgiving the first time as don’t think I really got over him doing it the first time it was always there, I just pushed on and tried to forget , and this time round he is saying he was hacked and was not him messaging the girls in question, making me doubt myself , I can’t even speak to him about it as when I try always ends in an argument etc but when the girls come forward I wasn’t upset I was more annoyed at myself as felt as if I let it happen again, but felt a sigh of relief too as if I expected it to happen, but from now on no more second chances , I have a big heart and I care too much for people, but I need to put myself first as it’s no good for my mind and health , another person has told me he was messaging them too but back in Feb and says he was hacked then too 🙄

Thank you all very much , I didn’t want to believe but unfortunately I’ve seen the messages etc and I feel it’s time to think of myself and my kids , I deserve better, thank you

Yeah thank you he just keeps denying it I told him we were over but I feel he thinks I’m bluffing, been together 20 years too, but I’m not putting up with it anymore I do absolutely everything for him and he has took me for granted , he says I’m stupid for believing other people over him

Yeah thank you he just keeps denying it I told him we were over but I feel he thinks I’m bluffing, been together 20 years too, but I’m not putting up with it anymore I do absolutely everything for him and he has took me for granted , he says I’m stupid for believing other people over him

I can’t speak to him about it as when I do he starts shouting and banging things etc one of the girls you can see he was talking about his work etc before asking for pics etc he wasn’t hacked then but all of a sudden he says he was hacked, it’s the way he writes etc and he sent them a picture of him which you can tell he took it himself , I asked about it and he says someone must have took it and sent it , but it’s a picture of him in my kitchen xx

The people who messaged stay in the same area as me , and stated that I should know what he has been messaging etc he done it to me a few years ago messaging girls etc asking for videos and pics etc but I forgave him and I am friends with one of them and the other girl got my name etc from his Facebook , they sent me the messages that he had sent them on messenger , 3 different people, 3 different dates and times etc

Hi there any advice or options would be great, I recently had messages from other girls saying my partner was messaging them, asking for things etc and they also sent me screenshots of the messages etc I confronted my partner and he is denying everything saying he has been hacked ! My gut is telling me he is guilty