LaTroy

Yes because if he hid my earbuds which he dislikes when I use them in the house, he would hide them in a place I would not look, I never look in his clothing or drawers etc, which he knows. I bought the earbuds a few weeks prior and they were not inexpensive. It bothered me when I could not find them as they were a treat to myself. The sock drawer is the first drawer on the chest. There is always much more to any situation but I did not want to write a long post as it might big too wordy which would dissuade people from reading it. Thanks for your response.

True, it just hurts. Thanks for your reply.

He is 16 years older than me, our marriage is not arranged. It’s like after we married he became a different person. I feel like a fool but it was unexpected all this controlling behavior. We don’t have children, when I committed I committed for life so it’s hard to wrap my mind around all the things that have happened. Everyone thinks he is so nice but behind closed doors it’s like I don’t exist unless he needs something. Thanks for your suggestions.

I’m scared to approach him because he gets upset very quickly. This is why I’m reaching out to ask people what they think before I face the explosive reaction I’m sure to get. Thanks for your reply.

I’ve been married for 4 years for almost the entire length of the marriage my husband and I have sexual issues as he has ED. I’m going to make a long story short. We have other issues of respect and affection. Every time I express a need he tells me I’m too sensitive. He’s basically only nice to me when he needs something. But… a few months ago I lost my earbuds. When I told him he just laid on the sofa with a smirk and I thought maybe he hid them from me. I opened his sock drawer which is in our guest bedroom and ran my hand around the perimeter my fingers hit a pill bottle I looked at it, it turned out to be ED meds from the website Hims. I thought why is it hidden? Why wouldn’t this be in our bathroom? I said well maybe they are not used, but the seal on the bottle was broken. The prescription is for 90 days I counted the pills and 64 were in the bottle at the time. I decided to put them back and now months later all the pills are almost gone. We do not have a good marriage due to emotional abuse, he’s hurt me a lot but I never thought he would cheat. Do you think he is cheating? My thing is if you have nothing to hide you hide nothing. I’m trying to be open minded I don’t want to accuse him of cheating, but it’s been so long and when we sleep in our bed we don’t even touch. What do you think?