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He asked once after sex if I had an orgasm and when. I asked him why was he asking me this. And he said because women lie about it. And I kept telling him I wasn't so it's obvious that he didn't believe me.

He's the one who is insecure and thinks I lie about having an orgasm with him.

Because I’m having sex with a guy with a guy and I want to go out with others? I don’t see the issue with that. I’m single I can do what I want. He’s getting the best out of everything. He gets to have sex with someone he’s not even attracted to. While getting to lust after chicks he’s really into. All the while he doesn’t want to share. That’s not fair to me and I’m not going to listen to him. I’ll do what I want just like how he’s doing whatever he wants while he’s following all these model chicks. He wants sexual monogamy yet he’s lusting after other women not going to happen with me. No way.

It’s not only my definition look up fwb and monogamy. It isn’t a caring relationship about each other and wanting to grow a learn about each other. What is a friend to you then? You don’t care about your friends? I guess he better stop telling me personal things then. It’s not about not catching an STD. He said the reason why he doesn’t want to share. Could be because he’s insecure. That has nothing to do with an STD. Those models he loves so much probably sleeps around so yeah. It’s ok though because I’m going to ask him why he’s even sleeping with me. When clearly I’m not even his type. I’ll do whatever I want with other men. And if he doesn’t like it then it’s his problem. If he wants to tell someone what to do. Then he needs to be in a relationship. Being monogamous is when you’re not seeing anyone else. If we were actually dating then yeah I can understand why he would want to be monogamous but we aren’t.

Yeah, and I'm allowed to lust after and go out with other men. Therefore he shouldn't me telling me about how he doesn't like to share. Because I'm not his girlfriend I know what FWB. He's the one telling me how he doesn't like sharing because he's insecure not me. Why should I care about him being insecure? FWB isn't monogamous you're allowed to sleep with who you want. He can't tell me what to do if he's doing what he's doing. Like how can he expect me not to be involved with other men? When he's lusting after other women that's a joke. If he doesn't want to share then he should be in a relationship and not fwb. The real question is why is he even having sex with me when he's not attracted to me?

If he fulfills my needs why do I have to supplement it? The same reason why he has to look at naked models on social media. He said he wouldn't have sex with a woman he's not attracted to. But I don't really think I believe him. If he liked women like me he'd be looking at them on social media too. And not just skinny chicks. So yeah this is all the more reason why I get what I want from him sexually. While dating other men without him needing to know. Because he's not being upfront and honest with me.

Yeah, but he's following models on social media. Yet he's telling me he doesn't like to share? I guess I don't really understand that part. If he can look at other women while having sex with me. Then why can't I have sex with (if I wanted to) other men? When he's looking at the models he's lusting and thinking about sex with them. So really whats the difference? It's also kind of odd that he would even bother to have sex with a woman who looks like me. When the woman he's looking at looks nothing like me. I'm not telling him anything about what I do with other men. Because he's lusting after others. So how he feels about what I do with other men is irrelevant.

The guy that I'm fwb is my safe place I feel safe with him. I like how I feel when I'm with him. It feels comfortable to go to his place watch movies, eat, and sometimes cuddle. But that doesn't mean that I don't want to talk to or go on dates with other men for fun. (Not actually have sex with them)

What is risky sex? I'm only having sex with one guy.

Why don't I want a real relationship? Because I don't feel like putting the energy into a relationship. I have more important things to worry about. And most men lie and cheat anyway. But that doesn't mean I don't want to have fun. Besides 99% of the men on those apps only want sex anyway. And they pretend they want a relationship when they really don't. One man said he was attracted to me but I looked at his FB profile and I saw the type of women he was really attracted to. Which looked nothing like me. So I know he's just wanting to have sex with me. All of the pages he follows are of skinny chicks. All the pictures he's in are with skinny women.

If a man I am having sex with tells me he doesn't like having multiple sex partners. Of course, I'm going to check and see what he's up to. I also see where he follows models on social media. So that's all the more reason why I can do whatever I want with other men. Since he's doing whatever he wants. If I wasn't looking at his social media I wouldn't know he's been following half-naked models. Have sex with 6 guys per week? Who said anything about having sex? I mentioned that I don't have sex with multiple men at once. I posted an article that said a woman went on 6 dates per week. It didn't say anything about her having sex. You're basically just trolling now.

If we have an exclusive agreement not to have sex with others. Then why isn't what he does outside of that not my business? It's my business to know if he's having sex with other women if we are supposed to be exclusive.

Why am I stalking him? That's not stalking I look at every guy's social media that I'm involved with. Because people are crazy nowadays. And it's my business because we are having sex. And he's telling me he doesn't like having multiple sexual partners at once. So I want to know what he's up to.

What's wrong with that? There was a woman who went on six dates a week. So she didn't have to buy groceries. https://nypost.com/2023/01/23/i-went-on-six-dates-a-week-and-didnt-have-to-buy-groceries-for-2-years/amp/?utm_source=reddit.com

I don't mind that he doesn't want to go out I like being at his house with him that's not the issue. But that doesn't mean I can't go out on dates with other men.

It's not really about being satisfied I like talking to people I get bored easily.

Some people have said that they have been fwb for years. So sometimes it's not always short term that's just a stereotype that most people use.

I've been seeing this guy for a year now we are fwb. When we first met he told me he doesn't like having more than one partner at a time. And I told him I didn't either. Recently he told me he doesn't like to share. I don't know if he meant that he doesn't like to share sexual partners or if it's only when he's in a relationship. He said he doesn't know why and maybe it's because he is insecure. I asked him if he was just looking for a hookup on the dating site. And he said he wasn't and that he was looking for someone. But that he's not on there anymore. Well, this doesn't make any sense to me because this is what we've been doing "hooking up" He said he doesn't socialize or go out and that he doesn't have time to date because he's busy. (He's an electrician). I see where he follows relationship coaches on social media. Which again makes no sense because he says he doesn't socialize. I haven't been out on any dates but I've been talking to other men. And some have asked me out on dates. (I don't want to sleep with them but I would like to go out with them). If I decide to do this do I have to tell the fwb?