anna ivanova

I understand, I genuinely thought I might’ve done something bad. but thank all of you for your replies, that did help me!

is this a serious comment? I do NOT want to break up with my boyfriend. if I wanted to break up with him I would not worry about possibly hurting him. usually honestly last longest, so that’s why I was asking for advice. anyways I think I’ve already made up my mind not to bring it up anymore.

Okay. I called one friend and told my boyfriend about it. But also chatted with an old friend and we played a game, but I forgot to tell my bf about that. That’s it He did those things, but told me everything, but I guess I don’t need to bring it up anymore since it’s months later and I just forgot about it

not as far as I know 🙂 we are working on it together

he has some girl friends that are work colleagues, he sometimes went to the gym with one of them but other than that not really no

I know, I am not taking drugs for a while now and actively bettering my life. this happened back in march, but I was really wondering if I should still bring this up now

thanks for your reply ! I defenitely will not do it again, because I do not want to feel like this again. I also straight away told him about the other friend, but I forgot about the other one for some reason. Otherwise I would’ve already told him. I feel like it’s weird to bring up now and maybe also unnescecary, but I also don’t wanna beat myself up about it forever not dependant, I work a lot and I have a girl friend that I go to the gym with etc. and I have a nice family. Yea, I’m gonna survive that. It’s very common where I live aswell. alot of people I know take drugs atleast every weekend (not that it’s good)) thanks for the advice and I’m glad you got to quit it!!

who tf eats on drugs. and what a useless comment, that’s not what I was asking for.

hahaha. no that’s what I’m doing now, sober. because I was worried.

I know, I didn’t mean to use that as an excuse. but I can see how it comes off that way. I def won’t to this again, and would’ve told him straight away that I talked to a friend like I always do but I just now remembered and felt weird about it.

I do not have a toxic boyfriend. he isn’t stopping me from talking to other people. I (!!) am just worried it’s bad I forgot to tell him I talked to a GUY friend, due to his response when I told about my other friend. I just feel dumb and tend to overreact. it’s fine by me if I can’t be friends with guys alone, then I won’t. but I just feel ***ty because I forgot to tell him about this before I knew that, like I’m hiding it. but I’m not, because I forgot and have to stop beating myself up over it now. besides me worrying in this post, I have to say my boyfriend has never hurt me and always shows me how much he cares for me in actions and words. we have been together a long time and I’m very happy with him.

they can cause that. I never really thought that could be what’s going on. everytime I feel like I’m okay, something new to worry about pops up in my head. now it’s this talk I forgot about. it makes me feel terrible. I google for hours if what I did was bad and my mind doesn’t stop racing thoughts about this. I genuinely don’t know when I’m overreacting or being legit. I would never want to do anything hurtful towards my bf.

aaaa, to give some background info as to why I was talking to male friends. I was high and just wanted to talk to anyone and wasn’t thinking that I maybe did something dumb until I was sober again. I would want to edit it out of the post now, but don’t know how haha

an old friend, I’ve known for years but hadn’t talked to in a long time. I would never be into this guy, just wanted to talk to whoever, because I was on drugs. I felt bad though and didn’t talk to any male friend since

? he’s not my drug supplier 😂 this post is not about drug abuse, I was just giving some context about the situation and what has happened.

We have not explicitly made a rule about this, I would have told him when I also told him about my other friend, but I had forgotten about it. I feel really dumb about it and wonder if I should still tell him now? as for further info, he went to the gym with his girl colleague a few times, but he did tell it to me. and he said it’s different, bc she is a colleague and I know her in real life. also, sometimes his ex (who I have never seen) came to see him at his job and he told me afterwards. this doesn’t happen anymore though. and twice he met up with her but he would always ask me upfront if I’m okay with it. I don’t have alot of friends, and no guy friends that I meet up with whatsoever, but I still feel ***ty.

I do not need advice on drug abuse. I am asking if it’s okay to talk to a friend lol.

my boyfriend and I (girl) both struggle with drug abuse. I usually only use together with him, but back in march I did drugs by myself, in my room. I thought it was boring and really wanted to talk to people. I called a friend and we played a game. I chatted with another friend (both guys) and played a game. I told my boyfriend about the friend I called with, because I felt very bad about it. he told me not to do it again. and I never will !! but I totally forgot to tell about the other friend I had talked to (both as friends!), didn’t think twice about it. probably because of the drugs use and me already stressing about the other. now it all comes back to me and my mind is racing thoughts constantly. I feel awful. constantly wishing I could turn back time. now I feel like I didn’t tell him everything, but I really just got this memory back now and now it’s weird. Sometimes for half an hour I feel like it’s not that bad and then I feel like I’m the worst again. I am dying for no drama and just feeling good. am I overreacting? do I tell him now or leave it?