LiakosN

But, she has a lot of close friends..If she acted this way to every friend of hers, she would have zero people in her life. Could you elaborate?

Hope the dog never bites in a different context. You think that in a friendly - like context she would act the same?

She was having sex with an immature kid.. She was staying because of my good traits. It doesn't make sense.

Actually no, it's not justifiable. She acts immaturely and projects it on me. Nope

Yes! But she says I AM so immature that their bad self comes out only to me.

And why all this behaviour? Which is her need to hit, insult and call me names?

She could easily find other toys No, I did not said I want to be together. No! Because she will be violent again and the risk is high. And I am welcoming the same behaviour again. She ended the mess in a violent way, because she said I am a liar, and I do things with other woman (and all those stuff I listed). I said to her that I tell white lies as everyone and she was insulted because she thinks she never lies. I don't go with other women.

No, I would never do that. Because I do not get that furious/angry. Admiration is for other facets of her personality. I think the same. She told me once that: she is a woman and I am a child. But she was staying in this "relationship" with a child... So you mean, as soon as she found another guy suitable for her she would have kicked me out? Also she told me that I want to take advantage of her that's why I am speaking to her. But she did not elaborate.

No, of course not. It's an act, not an opinion. Insulting and hitting is (according to her) a follow up to my bad behaviour. Part of me thinks maybe I WAS the person that cause her to act this way.. But, I am blaming myself with no reason and having sometimes trouble sleeping at night, thinking of the situation. With the way she speaks I was doubting my sexual identity.

She also told me that she would like to keep contact with me, because she appreciates me as a person as well.

I don't get angry when someone gives me an opinion. Sex was good back then.. But, I do not want to have sex anymore, nor I want to return to a romantic situation. We would be 1 more year apart and then we could stay together in the same place (guaranted)... Didn't want to break up, because I really liked her as a person.. I have met so many girls, that if I wanted to have a new gf, I could. But se was the one that fullfilled me in many ways. Thats why I stayed.

Also, she didn't like to give her my opinion. Only if she asked me to.. Otherwise she got angry

I do not demonize her of course. She acted from fear, unconsiousness, selfishness and need for love. She has positive traits, as anyone. But yes, there were times we argue and she was offensive, expressing frustration. Seemed she didnt like that someone had another opinion. Better word : appreciate for her good traits.

Hm! Do not think it is a game I am playing with myself. Mostly it is a person that I do admire (despite what happened), I see lot of positive traits and I believe that in a friendship-like context it might be better (non violent / abusive). We can have great discussion topics and good chemistry in there.

Because we both work on different cities and we come back on our parents home for summer (as we don't work then)