sarik

Actually I am afraid of losing him. I might not find such kind, patient and responsible man like him and we are not marrying until we are 25. So I should just try to sneakily date him sometimes without my parents knowing and give this relationship a bit more time. It's too early to take such decisions and that's it. Thank you for helping me out. I hope I am going through the right path.

I am dating a guy who is one year younger than me...but we are studying in the same year. He is doing his bba major where I am doing mbbs. Countries like we live in, parents decide about marriage and stuffs. Since I will become a doctor in future, my parents are telling me to marry a doctor or engineer who will had science background; even if they don't earn that much, my parents will happily marry me off with them whoever is doctor or engineer. On the other hand, I am dating a guy who is younger than me if my society gets to know this, I might be a laughing stock in the family gatherings. Also my bf is doing bba which my parents might not like. I can hide the truth of he being one year younger but about his profession I can't lie. This might lead me to a hard time for a certain period. But I love him and he loves me more than I do. We have been a long distanced relationship for almost 2.5 years. We couldn't meet up because of college/university entrance exams. But our love didn't fade. We will be able to meet soon. But I am now confused that should I continue this even if we are destined to be separated in the future. Please someone help me out ! p.s. I am from Pakistan, an islamic country.