I would like to know if there is still some hope (even if it's small) to get her back in my life. My gf (27 F) of 5 years broke up with me by mid Feb. First of all, it was my fault for making her wait too much. We already had prior discussion on goals and timeframes. I stupidly fell asleep, didn't notice time was slipping by and I would lose her one day.
I've tried to get her back. Two weeks ago I took my day off (went to the jewelry store the day before), headed to the airport, tried to stop her from taking the plane to another state, asked her the question (it was sincere) but it was a futile attempt. She immediately declined, told me she wanted nothing from me. This was her reply that I'll never forget: 'I've never seen you taking major actions until now. Why now?
I don't know what more I can do. I've tried my best to make her reconsider and not take the plane. She still walked away, declined my proposal and I watched hopelessly as the plane took off. I know she's going to likely find someone, have kids with someone else. I must admit this makes me jealous and sad at once. I wish she came back. If she did, I'm already for her. I don't mind asking her again and again until she says yes. Is everything lost or is there some hope?
What will it take for her to come back, to give me this last time, to say yes to me? It was a blue sapphire ring, her favorite but she declined it. I can be that man she always wanted. Is all hope lost? Did I really lose her? I want her back.
She flew to Hew Hampshire. We were living together (Miami, FL) after a year of dating. I'm deeply devastated. After the plane took off, I went home and got drunk. During our last conversation, she expressed about being hurt that it took leaving to get a proposal from me instead of on my own. She also stated about how I always seem to do certain things at the last moment (I still get it done though), even to pay the bill sometimes. It's true. This is something I'm going to work on fixing.