We've been married 5 years now. She's 3 years older than me. We both work full time. She goes into the office 2 days a week, and I'm full time home office. I periodically leave for a week to go to my clients HQ. Every other month I'd say.
The laundry is the only thing that I really don't do... I take care of the house and landscaping. I gave up all of my time consuming hobbies, like woodworking, for cooking. I work, clean, cook, and play with our 3 year old daughter every day.
We have issues. If she wasn't in the room (and here she isn't) I'd say I'm ying and she's yang. I'm yes, and she's no. She never agrees with me. I always have to fight for my positions.
She caught me looking at porn last year and wanted to go to therapy. Being angry with having to do it, I snooped on her work computer. I found she was obsessively looking at her ex husbands Instagram page. The therapist was expensive and pointless. I was the only one who talked.
My sociopath comment was in reference to the relationship I had shortly before I met my wife. I literally had to have the guy she was screwing tell me he was screwing her, and the guy who was letting him live with her have a melt down that I was still paying for a nice portion of her expenses. I don't give up, and pretty women seem to take advantage of that.
