Bigfeet23

I did ask that question not so much about the trusted someone as that came along from links with the therapy. He swears there's no one else and we have always been very honest with each other so I'm hoping there's not as I think the good terms we are in right now would definitely change. More so due to the lie if there was someone else. Myself and the kids have hobbies etc so have groups of friends around that but still feel very isolated we've barely told anyone of the situation. That's the next step I feel to tell someone to have those conversations

Your reply was kind, like you say we are still on good terms and hopefully we can work out the best way going forward. I've honestly never felt such heartbreak, but being on good terms helps in someway.

So bit of a long story but so confused and need a bit of advice / thoughts on situation. 6months ago partner of 10 years decided they were no longer in love with me. We have twins aged 9 and he has a daughter from previous relationship now age 14. We own a few different properties so the twins and myself have moved into one of the other houses but it's only 10min away. I moved over 200miles to be with this man, and now I feel like I don't belong, no family near by, home doesn't feel like home but don't want to move back to where my family is and make more upset for the children. What hurts the most is the not wanting to try to fix relationship we never really argued or hated on each other just odd niggles now and then. This is also the worst timing ever for me as I have a family member ill and feel so bad not being near by them. The partner since the announcement of not wanting to be with me has been diagnosed with trauma which has came from a few situations in his pre teen life. He has been seeing a therapist and has someone he trusts to talk to etc. I'm still his biggest cheerleader and he's an amazing dad. I just don't know if I should just continue to give him space And support from afar and let him know I'm hear if he needs or if I should try and move on.