Hi,
I met a guy and we dated a bit. He seemed sweet, shy, empathetic and really sensitive. So I thought he will not hurts me. He was also cheated by his last girlfriend so I thought he will not reject me or let me know if he is not interested anymore.
On the last date he asked me to go to his place. I said yes but I wouldn’t have sex with him because I was abused and I will need time. he said no worry he is not a one night stand kind of guy. We didn’t do anything. Two days later we were supposed to meet to watch a movie I asked him if he was still interested to watch it and he said he will love to but he was tired because he had a long day. I understand because he is like doing three jobs lol. But I felt like it was an excuse…
Since then he was distant but still sending messages (like talking about the conjunction of saturne and Jupiter in the sky lol). So one day I asked him out just to test him (I know I shouldn’t ask him out) and he said he had to check his schedule (he just got a new job also). I told him if he was not interested anymore he just has to say it clearly. He just answer that he was not blowing me off, he was at work right now and wanted to give me a thoughtful response… So I felt bad and said I am waiting for his news. He loved the message and that’s it… I send it last Monday. I know there’s nothing to understand but he seems to be one of the good guys and to like me. Maybe I am just an option or he is acting distant because he didn't have sex with me. 😅
