Hi, Everyone hope you all are well.
Just starting with thank for taking the time to read this. Please do let me start with I am sorry for any punctuation mistakes.
I have been dating my current wife for 6 years and we got married 3 years ago. So where do I start we got married and first couple month was brilliant and then a year came up and everything went pretty much down hill and at times it just feels like we holding on to a thread.
I am always made to feel I have done something wrong or never understood her and it’s like treading on egg shells, just waiting for her to start again.
Since marriage every birthday supprise has been around or over £700 but to her it just never seems to be enough no matter how much I spend she always says this is not what I wanted and I don’t know her. I sit and listen to what she says but it’s always you should know me better you know me for 6 years. Even this year I renovated the house exactly how she wants but apparently it’s still a *** hole. I even randomly purchased her some flowers today on the way home from work which i admit I rarely do but today thinking she will be happy but she started to nit pick at them as all she likes are roses and i did knew this but couldn’t find any roses so I thought she would be happy but she wasn’t.
As she started to nit pick I became a little upset and went upstairs she followed me to the bedroom and started to cry and once I asked why she said “why don’t you know me or try to understand me about what I like and don’t like” ect. I replied with I do as much as I can why don’t you understand, specially recently all my money gone to the renovation I am trying to budget. She replied with “You have been saying you can’t get what i want since i met you becuase you are trying to save”. I walked off and just seem nothing will make her happy I don’t know isit something i am doing wrong by not getting to know her even though I feel I do.
Currently she crying very loud at the stairs and throwing things around. Feels like until I don’t say sorry and go make it up she won’t stop.
Other things like:
1.When she is upset and crying or we argue she will not allow me to sleep. She will turn the light on and remove my duvet so for my own sleep i will say sorry.
2.When we argue and it gets bad she text me saying she will take half of the house ect even though I purchased this house before I was married to her so for the sake of the house I will say sorry and carry on.
3.I will always be saying sorry to sort our arguments out even though I know it’s not my fault.
