CherryRedOctopus7

What would you say is the right place?

I'm sure he has sex with other people, which I don't mind. But as for your bolded, true. Only thing that makes me hesitate. He could secretly record....

Now, regular STD testing and condoms is always a must, but he's not a sex worker who sleeps with other people, at least not for content. He makes masturbation content. Getting attached...that can happen to someone if they've had partners in the past too. I see no need to tell future Mr. Right he was a sex worker, especially when people's first thought is going to be prostitution. I'm just going to say I've had sexual partners before them, like 99% of the world.

But you two were young, in an exclusive relationship, and likely each other's first. You also could have tested beforehand for your first time together. The STD concerns in your situation don't make sense to me. And being responsible with BC would have been the same responsibility you had when you decided to lose your virginity with whoever you decided to later on. It's not something I want to get over with. It's something I want to do.

What would've been the downsides?

I'm just very discouraged. But I didn't feel desperate in choosing the OF guys--excited, that's all. Can you all explain more why--mentally and emotionally--it's so bad to have sex with him for my first time if he turns out to be understanding and caring?

Sigh. I am beyond tired of waiting. This mythical "good match/the right one" is not coming.

Lol, have you seen the dating world? People are having a very hard time finding that "loving partner." I'll continue to date and try to meet guys in real life, but I don't feel the need to wait around anymore. I found someone I'm really attracted to and if he proves himself to be respectful, patient and discreet, I don't mind making him my sexual debut.

He says they've made a few thousand in profit so far, but that's still in their accounts because they haven't sold yet, obviously. They're really closely following this guy's advice, have downloaded his chart on what crypto to buy and when, posted it on the study wall, and crypto people on YouTube constantly. He keeps telling me that 1-2 years, all these coins should explode once the bear market ends and they'll be millionaires.

For the past three years or so, every time I (25F) talk to my dad (63M), he tells me about some crypto coin I should be buying. He's been following this guy on YouTube who has a course on how to become a millionaire in a year after the bear market ends, and my parents have been buying all the coins he recommends. After he gives me the latest update on the crypto market, I get a recommendation to "Buy QUANT! Buy GALA! Buy more VeChain!" I, being a person who doesn't want to spend my limited fun money and not a full believer in crypto, mostly smile and listen and eventually change the topic. He even said he's going to buy me a crypto coin as my birthday gift, which I told him not to do because if anything, I'd rather have real money and not have to sell the coin behind his back. He got upset even when I told him that. After the last time we met, and he told me what crypto I should be investing in, I politely listened and told him I'll think about it, but he got loud with me that I should stop shrugging him off and buy these coins because they're going to be "huge."

He's just really ***ing hot to me, lol, so I wouldn't mind a spin with him. But I have also just downloaded a dating app and I'm trying to go to more social events to expand my horizons and options. Yeah, not giving my NDA idea any more thought. I could see how silly I was being now.

He's just really ***ing hot to me, lol, so I wouldn't mind a spin with him. But I have also just downloaded a dating app and I'm trying to go to more social events to expand my horizons and options. Yeah, not giving my NDA idea any more thought. I could see how silly I was being now.

He's just really ***ing hot to me, lol, so I wouldn't mind a spin with him. But I have also just downloaded a dating app and I'm trying to go to more social events to expand my horizons and options. Yeah, not giving my NDA idea any more thought. I could see how silly I was being now.

Cool! Makes sense. Time to get my freak on! I am. And yes, I called him a "porn star" last time, which is not accurate. Let's call him adult content creator, lol. Same thing applies--no paying him for sex or recording us having potential sex.

I wouldn't be paying him nor recording content with him. It'll be the same as a one night stand or FWB situation. (He only records and posts solo stuff, but I'm sure he's been having sex with women in his real life alongside all that.) But it's all hypothetical, so I digress. I guess anyone I sleep with could always just come back and say, "Hey, she did this and this." Ugh, so annoying.