So my partner was acting strange after a night out. I sussed out something was up, after a week she finally admitted she met another man on a night out and she enjoyed how he made her feel, special and was showing her *** loads of attention! She then went on to tell me how she doesn’t know how she feels about me anymore!
week later I catch her messaging the man while sitting next to me, I ask her to stop and bloke him, she swears they were friends and just talking. I know this isn’t the case from what the previous experience is! I ask her to block him and not speak to him and she said ok fine. And went along with it and told me she has.
week after this, she comes home tipsy from being out drinking, catch her messaging the man again, while sitting next to me. This time she is refusing to stop messaging him and went on to tell me how she likes him and doesn’t know how she feels about him, she told me that she not to sure about us anymore and people grow apart and somethings ain’t meant to be!
I bring this up and the morning and she couldn’t even remember From the drink! Being all apologetic to me!
this Saturday night. She went out clubbing, I stayed home, gone 3oClock in the morning and still not home and haven’t heard nothing, no reply’s to text or anything! My friend has seen her parked up in a secluded car park with this man, just them to! He rings me to warn me, I wait a hour to see if she gets a lift home. As I watch out the window I see the car pass the house and pull up down the road. I waited and waited to see what was up, they sat for another half hour. Obvs my partner didn’t realise I was up waiting so I’m the end I went out and up to car to find her with the man, I didn’t see anything happening but the doors was locked and he sped off and then dropped her down the road!
she swears blind to me that she hasn’t cheated on me. We have been together 8 years and never had an issue like this before. But what is playing on my mind is. She was obvs messaging him behind my back loads the whole time and she knows his intentions and she still speak to him and get in his car. Does she have the same intention as him do you think? Is it only a matter of time before she does cheat?
should I forgive or get rid now and save myself the disloyalty
