elleoli28

Well, that's exactly what I meant by 'hard to read', I've become aware that I freeze and I don't behave according to how I feel and end up giving the wrong impression, so he might have doubts about my interest too. After all, I just asked if he wanted to get coffee...

I am a female INFJ and I asked this guy out for coffee about a month ago and he said that he was busy because a friend was coming over to spend the weekend. He’d already shown interest before, but the next time we talked, he asked me if I had plans that afternoon and I said I had to work. After that he also started to show some interest by asking me questions and approaching me more often and he’s been very smiley since then, but he hasn't made a clear move either. I'm told that INTPs are very logical and take things very literally, but also overthink everything. For me it's much easier to be direct with a person because I'm not great at flirting and I'm hard to read so I don't show my feelings until I open up. I think we have chemistry and I’d like to explore that but it's hard to get together and have a proper conversation so I’m considering asking him out again more directly this time and make my intentions clear. Would that be a good move? Thanks!