So i (38M) had what i thought was the relationship i was looking for, but over the last decade together she became extremely unhappy and began to be cruel to me, and eventually i made the decision to end things. now i feel like a pathetic old guy because i want the same kind of relationship - someone from a culture that values family, doesn't have casual sex, someone who wants kids. in my experience that's almost only immigrants! but dating sites either have bar hoppers or super gym rat / outdoorsy people that just don't match my life, or they've already got kids and want someone to help raise them. i feel guilty wanting another chance at the right relationship, like I'm looking for some skeevy mail order bride or something. am i wrong?