I've been with my long term partner for 9 years now and i've known only the last year that he has previously cheated on me, right before getting engaged and right after we had our first child. He left the usb with photos and videos in one of our storage cabinets. I havent told him that I found out, but he constantly is going behind my back on fake facebook accounts talking to other girls and offering to pay them for pictures, vids. I work right now full time while kids are in school and he doesn't currently, its driving me nuts because hes literally doing this behind my back and is showing no shame at all. He acts like nothing is going on and that he's still super attracted to me and talks about im all what he wants and im so attractive that if I knew how attractive I was that I wouldn't be with him, etc etc. I do take care of myself and take pride in being healthy and active. I don't know how to bring this up as hes obviously been doing this for Years...just didnt think that I would find out and now that we have kids together i feel even more stuck. I was young when we began dating and now i feel like im better than this, i deserve more than someone whos just going to use me and act like their not being a snake behind my back.
I want to know if anyone else has had similar experiences with dumping a long time cheater.
