My husband and I have been married for almost 10 years but we have been together for over 15 years. I have noticed my husband is changing in the last 2-3 years: he is so negative and can't find anything positive to say ever, judgmental, overbearing, complains all the time, self-absorbed, extremely anxious. We both work from home and consistently around each other. He is not verbally or physically abusive. However there has been no romance at all in our lives for years. We have no children. When mentioned a few weeks ago, he does not want to go to marriage counseling. He went on a trip for about 2 weeks and without him here, I realized I started suffering from symptoms of PTSD. Is this possible? I had a very scary childhood and on anti-anxiety meds. I fear since he and I seem to be changing as people that this marriage may not work out anymore. I really enjoyed the time apart. What should I do? Any realistic advice on this would be appreciated.
