Levi96

I also saw an ex who I was very much still in love with. We had sex and I thought it meant we were back together, but he said it did NOT mean that. I was terribly hurt. I can't say why he wants to meet with you, but I can definitely strongly advise you do not have sex with him. Having sex will not automatically mean you two are back together. And if it ends up being just a hookup you will end up feeling really bad. But thanks for clearing this up! Of course I read some things already about meeting up with an 'ex' and indeed sex is off the table for me. I'm just curious to know why he is open for meeting up right now but I guess I will find out in two weeks... ;-)

I (26M) was dating exclusively (not in an official relationship yet) a guy (27M) for two months in September/October. We saw each other a lot. Maybe 3-4 times a week. Out of the blue he told me he was feeling suffocated and wanted to stop dating me. He asked for space, which felt good for me because I was really hurt because I didn't saw it coming. He said from his end he asked for space because he didn't want to lead me on or giving me false hope. Now, 2,5 month later, we are texting each other daily again. Not a lot (like 10 hours+ between replies) and just about daily things but we established some contact again. I told him that I still feel for him as more than a friend. He didn't react negatively or turned it down but also didn't mention that he felt the same. He said: "Let's talk about this when we are meeting face-to-face". We are going to meet in two weeks again and I have to say, I still have some hope that there is 'more'. Dumpers out here, would you meet with your 'ex' if the dumpee told you he is still open for more? Of course, I ask this to get some perspective on my situation... 😉