MsSassy

1 hour ago, Wiseman2 said:

Sorry this happened. Was it understood that you were in an exclusive relationship?  It seems like too much too soon. You seem to be "relationshipping" rather than dating just 30 days into it.

Perhaps he viewed this as a casual fling rather than a relationship. Are you still communicating ?  Does he not want to date at all or just hook up on weekends without a  relationship label?

From my understanding we were dating. I no longer talk to him he is blocked. I heard he went back to his ex.

So I meet this man he was so wonderful. We went out on dates and he would stay at my home during the weekend. We was together for about 4 weeks. We did have sex with each other as well. He said he liked me and we was making future plans together. But he called me and said He can’t see himself being in a relationship with me There was no explanation. He just dumped me for no reason.

23 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

Sorry this is happening. What was the breakup about? Do you live together? How old is he? Have breaks and breakups happened before?

If you question him, he can sidestep it with the "we were on break" excuse. Or simply give you the "we're friends" line.

Start by figuring out what the break was about. Try to focus on and resolve that. Decide if you want to invest in someone who wants an on/off relationship.

 

Basically, we wasn’t communicating much we would go 2 days without talking. Stay on the phone for about 5 minutes. I felt he lost interest. We don’t live together. We haven’t broke up before. 

I been with my boyfriend for 7 years. We broke up January 2 there was no communication until January 29, He ask me to talk I agreed. I ask if he was seeing someone he said no. But he said he met a friend. But, on her social media she was saying that’s bae they went on dates. But, he don’t want to talk about it. He wanted to start fresh. So I agree for us to work on our relationship. He cut off all communication with her. He said she blocked him. He also said we need to wait 30 days to have sex. But all of a sudden he deactivated his account. He never done that. Is this something I should be worried about? Should I be asking more question about their relationship?