My bf and I have been together for 18 months and I believe our relationship has developed into a very healthy and good one. However, I have still kept my house, which is about an hour away from him, and although the original intent that we had was that I would sell my house and live with him in his place, I still have my house because I’m working part time near my home.
This last weekend I got a cold, so I wasn’t up to seeing him at his at his place but I said I’d like to for him to come see me. He said let’s see how you feel and then , he said well maybe I shouldn’t come in case you’re contagious. I understand his health concern. But he has a habit of not coming to me where I live. I understand further that it was our intent to be at his place on the weekends since there’s a lot more happening there , I just feel like he doesn’t make much of an effort to see me when it’s not on his turf.
just seems to me that if he really wants to see me he can make an effort. I go to him on most weekends.
