I (25F) might have feelings for my friend (27M)
So I met this guy awhile ago at a music festival and we clicked really well as friends. I invited him to stay with me and some friends for the next festival and he agreed to come down, we had been texting each other all day between the two festivals and it was so easy spending time with him and he seems really attached to me. The last night we ended up cuddling on my bed alone because he was upset about how my other friends were being territorial over me (physical affection is pretty common in my friend group, but I don’t normally cuddle with guys and I never sleep in the same bed as them because I was assaulted in my sleep by a friend) We’ve traveled to each other a couple of times and spent time with each other (always with friends around) We still talk every day and I’ve told him things I’ve never told people and vice versa. At one point he had asked about that night we slept together (just slept) and I had just said I was comfortable with him and he was a good friend and he said he felt the same way. Ever since then I keep thinking about him and I feel like I might be catching feelings for him. I’ve had close friendships with other men and it hasn’t felt like this before. The only problem is I’ve identified as a lesbian for 6 years and I’m possibly asexual. I love having him as a friend and I wouldn’t want to jeopardize our friendship by making things awkward and I don’t want him to feel used if it turns out I’m not bi. Any advice?
