It will only work if she can forgive me and move on, it won’t work if she will use it as something to bash me with in the future. At times I feel as if I’ve actually cheated on her. I’m giving her time and space, and she’s telling me she really wants it to work, I have to take her word for it. She’s never lied to me before, I’ve always felt we’ve had an open and honest relationship with each other. Even this scenario, it wasn’t me getting caught out hiding something, I’d rightly or wrongly liked 2 photos that are there for anyone to see.
No, we don’t live together. That’s mainly for financial reasons, as the size of house we’d need for us and our kids is at this moment not something we can afford. I stay at hers a lot when I don’t have my kids, her kids don’t see much of their dad so are there most of the time so easier if I stay at hers.