genesis_69

We chatted and videocalled for a couple months before I moved her to Canada. The war was already going on. She didn't want to leave Ukraine. Her daughter, who lives in UAE, had a tough time convincing her to go. So she didn't want to escape the war. I like her, but I don't have those butterfly feelings. Are those feelings necessary to be in love? I can't support her for another month or so, but I wouldn't want to keep spending lots of money after that without being in love with her.

Hello. I hope someone can help. I'm a 45-yr-old American man. Over the past 5 years, I haven't been able to attract an American woman I like enough, so I went on a Ukrainian dating site and got to know a 38-yr-old woman I was attracted to there. About a month ago I moved her to Canada so she could escape the war and so we could get to know each other more. (It would take too long to move her to the US.) She's now deeply in love with me. I like her, but I'm not in love with her yet. No big surprise, as she's only been here for a month. I see her about 2-3 days each week. It's costing me a lot of money to support her. I pay for her rent and most other things. I can't afford to do that too much longer. I either need to work to move her to the US, or say goodbye and send her home. I WANT to fall in love with her. Is there a way I can force myself to be head over heels for her?