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True. I know hot women in that age bracket tend to look for someone more experienced (to settle down) and I have a need to prove myself because of that. She even told me she doesn't like younger guys because most of them are emotionally immature, but that I'm different. In other words, I put a lot of pressure on myself because I know that my competition is a lot older than me (and probably more successful).

Nah bro, it wasn't like a clinical, text-book definition of a panic attack... I basically started acting more serious than before, couldn't relax and basically the whole date felt like a chore...

Update: She got sick and couldn't reply. We went on 3 more dates - first two went perfect, she was super interested and we were chatting constantly... On the last date I literally got a panic attack because she is 5 and a half years older than me and super hot... So I started doubting myself (never happened to me on a date before). Long story short - on the last date the energy felt off and now she didn't even open my last message... So I probably ***ed this up lol

So, I was on a date with a girl - went well, we spoke for an hour and a half. After the date she told me to text her back if I liked her. 2 days later I text her to set up a 2nd date, she tells me that she has a cold and that we'll be in touch. Few days later I ask her how she's doing... no reply. Day after that I try calling her, and she declines the call (probably - went straight to voicemail). Should I pursue this further, or do I just leave it at that? In my past relationships with women I have never been ignored like that, so I have no idea what to do. PS. She's 28 and I'm 23 (if that helps)