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I want to see my parents in law and give gifts to them. but I don’t want to see my husband’s brother family.

We gather on Thanksgiving, Passover, and summer time.

I don't mind feeding my guests at all. But bad manners hit my nerve. At least they should ask if it is okay to access my pantry.

I meant that I don't want to give gifts to my husband's brother's family.

I think I will put my food away. I don't want them to have access away. That's a good idea. Thank you for your idea.

I am talking about my husband's brother's family.

My mother in law is very kind and nice. I would like to see her and give my holiday gifts by myself.

My husband and I hosted a Thanksgiving dinner before. That was awful. We just bought a new house. My in-law family opened my cabinets and a fridge to look for food without asking. They ate a lot! They expected we served good food. One day, we asked them to bring some food for yourself, but my brother in law said, “Well, I can eat what you have.” Then, we offered beef burgers, but he said, “I don’t eat beef. I eat turkey burgers.” Whaaaat? They think they can get free meal. They don’t have a polite manner. They like to visit us even they drive for 7 hours. They tried to come in the winter storm…. I told my husband that I don’t like them. My husband agreed, but he started to say, “I don’t want to hear that. That’s boring.” I like my sister in law so I mailed holiday gifts for her family. But I don’t want to give any gift to them. My husband plans to have dinner with them. I plan not to go. Am I wrong?