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This problem sorted mate. I got hold of her and said look you left to many questions in your answer i want to know chance for the future or not. She said see you as good mate. Now denies leading me to think maybe more. Said i might love you and think highly of you but leading me on shows your not as special as i thought you was over the year. Being in my life is a privilege not a right. For you lead me on (more things the next day as well) thinking i have a chance to be with you when am locked in friends zone was wrong, and you can't admit you done wrong. So sadly that privilege is now revoked banned her everywhere straight after. I might love her but I got self respect

I did i asked her directly myself. What i mean i was really embarrassingly shy when was younger around her couldn't even say hi. I then went to prison and lost contact of her. When i got out her sister said she's in a relationship got kids with him etc. So i kept my distance to be respectful to her. I always got her sister to tell me what's going on with her anything interesting etc. She still asked the same of me to her sister so both didn't forget each other. When she split up in June was a bad one really bad one bless her. I thought well not going to be shy as was and don't want to loose her again and asked her to be my gf and her reply was ^^^. The sad thing is I never have crushed or lusted after her I on heart do love her and when she moved on i was so sad I had to do the same. My feelings never changed for her. When she's with me I feel like am in the safest spot on the planet. We do get on really well always have done. Her sister thinks just wait, I have known her sister for 15 years and girl in question excluding time not spoken about 3 years.

No typo MissCanuck.... I still known about her and what's going off and she did with me because her sister my best mate..... When i seen her was like two peas in a pod and she was nearly crying from laughing. flirted a lot etc... But then said that after I properly asked her to be my GF. Just because we lost contract didn't mean we still don't know each other. Her sister don't know but she personally thinks give it few months max and I will 100% have her but want advise from a neutral position.

Hey thanks for your reply, yeah I lost contact with her but her sister younger sister my best friend. I tried to ignore her today and they then started a Facebook group chat and harassed me till I replied. It seems she want me around but not to close. This is why am confused

Right so I have known this women for about 13 years but lost contact and got back in touch through her sister week ago. When I seen here i still had that sparkle for her, when I was younger I was to shy to even talk to her because to me she was a super star and couldn’t get my words out to talk. When i got back in touch she just got out of a breakup that ain’t gone well. I asked her to be my GF because when i seen her i still seen we have chemistry together. She thinks am so funny dunno why but does. her reply to me asking her was “See I did have a think a long one but I’m just staying single for now as because to my current situation with social kids etc… and need to sort my self out for them and myself before I settle down, it’s a. Hard one coz I have real trust issues for one, and 2 just all the stress and drama was hard emir deal with but like to stay mates for the time being and who knows what will happen.. still go out and do things but like I say we never no what could happen in the long run hope ya understand xxxx” Is it as simple as wait you till am ready and we be together or is it a nice way to say no am not going to. Bare in mind she has a heart of gold and wouldn’t want to upset me. Side note I asked her for some photos so can have her on my wallpaper on phone with my dogs, I said i want them so every morning i wake up I will remember to check up on you, find out if need any help and just have you on there because I have always loved you. She said oh that's fine and let me have some. we have plans for laser quest and going out soon with her sister as well. Am I flogging a dead horse or will I get this person i been longing for most of my adulthood. Sorry my English grammar is not the best. thanks david