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First of all I said something specific which of course you ignored. Secondly I didnt ask your opinion. Thirdly I never said I'm a victim. Im in a moral court. Some people thay dont know how to communicate from their screens. SherrySher has good intentions but I dont think I will post here again and wasting my energy.

This is the best comment so far. Finally someone with a simple common sense without the drama. But I read the word creepy in one of the comments above as well. This is a reasonable fear but my question is why men have this fear? Because this is how our societies feeds us. We are growing with stereotypes and roles...don't do this...because...like we are leaving in a war zone or something. This is patriarchy. So Im calling upon to people that have these victorian ideas to bring the scientific evidense that support them. They cant because there arent any. Its just bias and insecurity. This is not a personal attack. Im just saying how people learn to think in our societies. This is why sensitive and introvert persons like me dont have friends and men who are really toxic are doing whatever they want. Sad.

So everyone that has a friend from different sex doesnt find him or her attractive? lol. Sorry but are you living in a medieval period? We are all atractive to everyone, nothing wrong with that. If you think the opposite you are just hypocrites. You all doing a mistake, you are trying to fit someone into your MORAL SHOES. Being rude and defensive and attacking someone that you dont even know. Choosing some of my words to support your opinion. This conversation is useless and low vibrational and offends my intelligence to the max. Funny that only women comment. Don't want to be rude but I think I probably stept into a ''women'' forum? Sorry but your ideas are not even feministic. Please dont make me comment again here.

What the actual heck. You are talking like I already slept with her without even know me. Only fanatics making such kind of statements or people that have been hurt in the passed mayby? Again bye bye.

First all I didnt said that about attractivness for me and my wife. This is just your false conclution. Why saying that I don't want her husband to be around? Your ideas are so extreme and you continue playing with words. Its boring... But it makes me wonder why you are so defensive. Did I triggered something?

You asked me... so I'm not evasive. I asked something specific, didn't thought that I would have been interviewing here lol. I actually care. If she doesn't want to hung out with for x,y,z reason that's ok. She is an adult. Nighty night.

Now you are playing with words. I can easily do the same, let's not do that. Please leave your stereotypes away. Are you married? I wonder why you have this conservative point of view. As I said my wife knows all my intentions plus I dont care if she goes out with a man or with a woman. Why? Because I simply DONT JEALOUS 🙂

Sorry as well, because I don't agree with you.

Wow, this so conservative.

If I make a friend and he is a man I can just hung out with him, one by one. But if its a potentiall friendship between a man and a woman why we should hung out as couples? I don't want somebody else to be involve at least at begining. I want to earn her as a friend by my self. Am I saying something strange? My wife already has her friends but I dont have friends. Why is it so hard to understand. This is my answer to bolotnrun.

Now you made it even more complicated, haha. So I'm guessing no one can answer my question.

Of course I have. I dont have mine friends only friends from my wife side. So my wife agrees because she want me to have friends. I just sympathize her a little bit more than others. I also met a very nice guy there and we had so much fun in class but with men its much more easier to connect. The program hasnt been finished cause now we are doing it from our screens.

No we are not single.

Hi. I met a woman in a program among with others and now has finished. I dont have much friends and I like her as a person and I think she also likes me although we havent been talking much in the class cause Im introvert. But we all connected in a social app and I can approach her more easily now. My question is what to say throught the internet in order not to look desperate? She is attractive but Im only looking for a friendship.