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thank you i’m not sure why i didn’t think of that, i will be contacting the doctor tomorrow morning to be safe! i’m trying to focus on the baby and not let this affect me too much but it’s hard and extremely bad timing. i’m not even sure how to bring this up to him i just want to disappear

I agree, the promise was very weak, at the time being newly pregnant and having just told everyone the news i decided to forgive for the sake of everything that was happening at the time. looking back i’m realising how stupid it was. i regret this baby happening in the mix of all this and i’m scared of going through this myself and i’m dreading bringing this up to him when i could go into labour any minute but i can’t leave it until after i give birth as it’ll be even worse timing. there’s no doubt that if i was not pregnant at the time he would’ve been gone after the first time 😕 im not thinking clearly the now so your reply has helped me see things from another perspective

Hi guys My bf and i have been together for 4 years and have a baby due next week!! we’ve never had any problems or arguments except a small incident that happened at the very start of my pregnancy 9 months ago. i found an app that was actively being used on his phone that is basically a dating site for threesomes, i didn’t click on the app or look at anything on the app but i brought it up to him and our relationship was rocky for a bit after but i forgave him as he promised he was just talking to them and not meeting them, thinking back now i’m doubting this. anyway fast forward to now and i find a social media account of his that he got a bit shaky about when he realised i seen, i never understood why but after he left my house i decided to be nosey and have a look, fully regretting my decision now. on the account he’s been following? watching? talking to? transsexual women and now i don’t know how to feel. these accounts are mainly porn and escorts posting nudity and stuff. i have nothing against trans people but i am in disbelief right now, having a baby due next week and i feel like i don’t even know who he is anymore. how do i bring this up?? do i bring it up? i have NO idea what to do, i just keep crying. Any advice will be helpful, im trying not to overthink this but i feel like my world is crumbling can i add i respect his privacy and i do not snoop through his phone ever, both times i seen these things were by accident, and this also makes me think there could be a lot more