About a year ago I started looking at my wife's phone because i was concerned about her having feelings for her personal trainer. Nothing serious but just fancying etc. Saw a few things which didn't like - selfies etc she had sent. She found out about me doing this and was really angry at me. I sought counselling as think this all stemmed from some kind of deep-rooted insecurity on my part.
However, yesterday I read another message she had sent this guy after i picked up her phone to look at her calendar before booking something for Xmas. She said she saw someone out that looked like him. He asked if she got any photos. She said no she didn't want to be the person busted for taking a picture of 'a hot guy'. This really got to me. Am I being overly sensitive here? I'm adverse to bringing it up with her as I look like I'm snooping again.
Thanks.
