Looking for people's take and advice on this one please...
I have been dating a girl for the last 4 months, I'm 34 and she is 32. Things have taken of really fast and we are in a really good place etc. I love this girl to bits, and feel we have a great future together. we have also discussed living together and having children.
However she has a guy friend. This should never be an issue but here me out.
Said guy and her have only been friends probably 6 months longer then we have been dating.
Her and this guy seem pretty close, text daily and meet for drinks and food etc. She recently told me some real personal trauma she went through a few years ago and recently I saw on her phone she has also told him. This is something I feel she should only be telling her partner, not just a friend. She has also told me he told her not so long back he was interested her and wanted to date her. This guy is single as well.
The other day we went out for drink and went home, I then see a message from him asking if she wanted to go out. She said no she was with me and I wouldn't want to, to which he replied he would come and pick just her up?!?
Am I been over the top here or is this not rite?
I have met this guy a few times and just get bad vibes from him. Always talks sexual things around her etc.
I have not brought this up with her but a few times she has been able to tell I've not been happy. Told me it's only me she's interested in and there just friends.
I trust her 100% but can't help feel this is effecting my relationship with her. I honestly feel it's like they are a couple the same as me and her our just without the intimacy side of things.
Thanks
