GF of 5 months sent me this text the day after breakup with no prompt or communication from me. She told me that I changed to “please her” too much and that I did nothing wrong. She is a very honest woman and don’t think she would lead me on.
Her txt
“Okay so I’ve been thinking a lot and just had a big conversation with xxxxx (her best friend is a massive fan of me)
I don’t think I want to close this completely yet.
We need a few months apart to do our own thing and reset as individuals….especially you
Maybe in a few months time next year we get together again and see how we feel.
We did have something special in the beginning.
But we need to be apart for now”
MY REPLY
“I definitely think this is exactly what we, especially me, need. I need to reset.
I will do that.
I want that special feeling back, the easy feeling, that relaxed, no effort feeling that we had.
Time apart will do us good. “
I’ve really had time to work on myself and realise that I need my own “bubble” and life, instead of making her(or any chick)my life. A partner is there to support you, stand next to you, instead I was kissing her feet in a way.
What does her txt mean and
What do I do next?
Thanks
