I went out with this guy about 10 days ago on a date and we had a great time. We got dinner and then went out to a few bars. It was a fun date, we were both really into each other and had great conversation. We made out at the end and he said he wanted to see me the next day. He ended up cancelling the next day with a long detailed excuse as to why he couldn't make it. He said he had an emergency with his best friend. I was understanding and he suggested the following weekend. I texted him mid week to confirm weekend plans and then he said he was busy again on both Saturday and Sunday with plans he forgot about. I would think that he wasn't interested, but he explained that he didn't want to seem like a flake, and that he was really interested in me and wanted to go out again. A little annoyed at this point, but I understand everyone has lives so I gave him the benefit of the doubt. Then at 4am he texted me asking if I was awake. He said he was going through some emotional problems and wanted to talk. I wasn't awake at that point and saw the message in the morning. I was a little confused because I hardly know him but once again I was very nice about it and understanding. Left it off saying just let me know when you're free to see me again. This was on Friday and I haven't heard from him since. I feel like he might be going through a rough time in his life. Should I message him again or should I just wait at this point? Is he ghosting?
