papajohn

We're early -mid 20s. Yeah, lots of mutual plans together and values. pretty much everything you listed. Shame.

Thanks for your replies everyone. Yeah, it's painful but only thing i can do now is to heal and learn from the experience. That's life i guess..

Heyo everyone Just want to rant and get some opinions. My 4 year relationship just went down the drain we've know each other for more than 7 years. I'm the dumpee in this situation. I neglected my partner and didn't pay them enough attention this past year/months (Work, Gym, study daily + lost of personal issues this past year). Now they've fed up and we've had a teary break up (on their side- I was flabbergasted and couldn't respond.) I did ask to try again to which they said that they're scared to try and that I will only revert back to my neglectful self in due time. I immediately went to NC pretty much week of BU. Though I did contact a week after to have them removed off some of my subscription services. However, I did ask if I could call them to just chat (i know. mistake.) to which they said they need some space (T.T). Been in no contact since. It will be 1 month next week of NC. I've also been to by the ubiquitous 3rd parties that my partner was very distraught post BU and also told said that they aren't opposed for us to get back to the future. In the meantime, I've definitely been trying to improve myself in terms of communication with friends and family who I've also somewhat neglected. I honestly do not know what to do. Has anyone been in this situation before and care to share their story? Both sides if possible. TIA!