My gf(22) and i (bf 25) , have been together for 4 months. Even tho i have made it clear that i want a serious commited relationship i dont see her doing much from her part. Ive been so madly in love with her i cant put it into words . I just cant stop thinking about her. Even when im at work i catch my self daydreaming. She is the first woman ever that has ever made me feel this way despite my past 4 and 5 year relationships. She is the girl i always dreamed of.
But the problem is that we only hung out once a week. She claims that shes too busy with her Uni, as she spends most of her time there, then she goes back home to study or hits the gym or goes for Tennis practice , or attends a local animal shetler she volunteers. Even after shes done with classes and i suggest to pick her up with my car to leave her home or go for a small ride she says "you dont have to" or "im too tired" when i feel the same way most of the times after work but still make the most effort.
We talk on a regular basis on the phone or via text, especially at night when shes done with everything, and thats it. Maybe im able to see her during the week-end and then i wait eagerly to see her again. We have also not been romantically involved ever before as a couple and i kinda want to initiate that.
Im getting really frustrated and passive aggresive sometimes, because when you love someone you always find some spare time just to see them.
We had a small conflict the other day because out of nowhere she told me that she is looking forward to study abroad for Masters. Even tho she claims that she cares and loves me , i feel like she is been too selfish for taking such radical decisions all by her self with out letting me voice an opinion on that.
Relationships usually involve two people, and ones decision might impact the others.
I feel like she takes me for granted bc im not like the other guys that are into partying, drinking ,hooking up , making a load of friends . Im really chill and introverted. Ill cook for her ,ill make sure shes alright, ill do anything to appease her
