SadGirl01

Guys, you know what’s interesting? I wrote almost the same thing on another forum where I just didn’t add the sentence about gf. 90% of people there told me he’s into me. So, yeah, you are right I shouldn’t approach him, but you are also so judging. And one thing that made me laugh was how you’re making an angel out of him while I’m the bad one bothering him. He was cheating on his ex on every party and I’m pretty sure he does the same thing with his new gf who btw is his ex student and they started dating when she was still studying there. She’s freshly an adult. So, yeah, he clearly is the good guy and just I am the bad one. I’m not going to read this anymore. Yeah, I’m going to avoid him, but please stop being so judging if you don’t know anything about him. Thanks to those of you who actually wrote at least something helpful. Bye.

Hi everyone, I would like to know your opinion. There's a man who's around 30 and I have a crush on him. He's very friendly, social and confident, but he started to act a little bit strangely when it comes to interacting with me. When we are talking, he acts like a shy guy. He doesn't look at me much, he looks down on the floor or to the sides and just glances at me sometimes. When he looks at me, his eyes are usually widened and his mouth is noticeably opened. He also sometimes plays with different things around him or with his socks which looks funny. When there are more people in the room, he chooses to talk to everyone rather than me and he almost pretends I'm not there. He is more friendly through online communication, but even in this case he sometimes is very nice and sends emojis and then a few hours later he acts as if I was bothering him. Once when I told him I'm gonna go to the place where he works, he told me that's good because we might meet each other, and when I actually reacted and told him I could visit him if I have time, he told me he's got much work. So initially he acted like he wanted to meet me and then he wanted to avoid me. I know he's got a girlfriend, so I try not to show my feelings for him, but it's quite hard. I even told him there's a man (which is true) who invited me to have a cup of coffee with him and I told him I'm not sure if I should go and he told me to give it a chance. That looks like he's not interested at all, but on the other hand, his signals are quite mixed which sometimes makes me feel like he might be hiding something, even though I know that I'm probably overthinking it. Could you give me your advice or just your opinion? I know I shouldn't approach him when he's taken, but I don't know how seriously he takes the relationship. He's the type of guy who likes to change girls a lot which is also the reason why I should run away from him, but I still kind of want to know if he might like me just to at least be sure that he doesn't so I can move on without thinking about it anymore. Sorry for my bad English. I'm not a native speaker.