Sithren

I’ve had 3 visits so far. It’s not been bad, I guess it’s just me wanting this to be over. It’s really affecting my job and life I feel helpless. I just felt like it wasn’t doing it for me, but I will keep going and see what happens

I can really relate with this. Thank you for the tips, I will be trying them. I really do need to get it out of my system cause it’s consuming me

Thank you. I sure hope these feelings leave my system. Sometimes I tell myself he is not a very good person to do this and the other times I try to justify it. It’s like I’m stuck in a cycle. I will keep try and fingers crossed that one day I let it all go

Yes it’s quite fresh but it has completely taken control of my life like I’m lagging behind and not doing things I should. I feel very drained. I will try to do those activities, it’s like even when I do then I think about the whole situation.

I will admit, I did check his profile sometime last week but I stopped. I guess I will keep seeing the counsellor and hope it helps

Thank you, I’ll keep trying my best to push forward. It’s been so hard

Thank you for you kind words. I’m actually 26, he is the one that is 23 so I’m not sure I’m that young lol. I have made some friends and joined the gym, I try to go out sometimes . It feels okay for a while but the thought of him and the whole situation is stuck on me like I just can’t let it go and it’s really bad. I just don’t know what else to do but I’ll keep trying I guess. I just feel unworthy and not good enough. Everything hurts and I’m really trying.

I’ve actually seen a doctor and counsellor, nothing really helps. I’m on some meds to sleep but I still don’t even get that much sleep. They’ve recommended things but it seems like nothing works.

So I posted here sometime last week about a situation I am in. Summary, met this guy months back, then we went into long distance and have been planning to meet and take our relationship to the next level. He then dumps me when I moved closer to him. It’s been 2 weeks and I haven’t been myself. I’m really hurting and struggling so much. I cry everyday, I can’t sleep or do anything, I lose appetite and worst part of all is I can’t concentrate on anything I have to do for work and it’s affecting my productivity so much. I don’t know why I’m hurting this bad, I have tried to make some friends, I go out sometimes but it doesn’t help. I’m still shattered by all this and I need help. I would love to hear some suggestions of anything I can do. I feel like I’m just existing. I wish I could actually express how much this is affecting my life and career right now. I don’t want to end up messing up my life over a 23 year old