I keep TRYING to post on Reddit and everyone is rude and deletes my posts like Im not asking for help and Im not even saying anything crazy, so please help because omigosh.
I think my question is more how to deal with my sister because I have made my mind up about my boyfriend but let me say the whole story.
A few years ago I met a guy. We were crazy about each other and he always saw me when he could at like 9 on Wednesday and early early early Sunday mornings when he was off work. I say this bc my sister is rude and says those are weird times but people work so I guess her problem is not understanding that?
Whatever, so the guy stopped responding after a couple months and my whole heart was shattered because we were pretty much boyfriend and girlfriend.
He had some stuff going on though. We all have stuff sometimes. For about a month when he stopped responding I kept messaging. I just wanted him to know I was serious and commited and he was like hey I dont want to be in a relationship and then he told me he found a girlfriend and then nothing.
Which of course hurt my feelings, but stuff happens. Any way.
A few years ago by. Maybe 4?
I get a text at midnight around and this is like, 4 months ago? It is this guy!!!!
My hands, when I tell you they arw SHAKING, because I never stopped thinking about him. You know, I always wondered how he could ditch me when we were so close.
He is telling me he is sorry in this text!! My heart! He says he misses me. Im like boy, quit playing lets hang out.
So we do and stuff ;)
its so crazy to have him back. Like really crazy.
We agree to move slow and so a few weeks after we hung out I deleted my apps, right. Because we have been exclusive and stuff.
My problem. MY SISTER. She stays in my ear. We havent talked much. She keeps saying I am making a choice that will hurt me.
She is saying like, he never respected me or my time and that he is an emotional tourist. That he will date me and get restless and I will be feeling dumb.
I cant with her.
He is over here giving me flowers and holding my hand.
Shes over there texting me that I never had any "hard talks with him about how he made me feel the first time"
But like he knew when he texted me and said sorry?
I dont know. I want her to just be happy for me.
What do you think?
