So i have started seeing someone for 4 weeks and been on 2 dates with her currently and a 3rd planned. Shes a nice girl and i really like her and we have alot in common. We are not in a relationship currently because she was not sure about commitment yet but she does like me.
So 2 weeks in i went and did a day out with a group of people and one of the girls took an interest in me and asked if i was single, i said yes because technically i am but just started seeing someone.
So few days later she asks if i want to sleep with her, shes fresh out of a long term relationship and just wanted no strings no attachment sex. I initially said no, how ever a few days later i was tempted and said yes, i saw her on the friday night and spent it with her before heading home next morning.
Now in the present i feel really bad like its cheating but were not in a relationship and not exclusive. I probably deserve criticsm for my actions but my question is do i just keep this quiet so i do not hurt her?
On the 3rd date i will be bringing up the topic of us and her thoughts on it, if shes happy to be exclusive then i will commit too just her, i don't want to say that like i am not going to be loyal if she says no but it was more i dont know what position i am in currently and what is acceptable and what is not? guess i am just confused with the current situation.
