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Thank you guess for being honest like this!

To add we met and instantly hit off so i feel like the friendship part would be healthy to grow before another shot. At least cause I feel like better relationship come with a person you would think of as a best friend..

Hi! To begin with this is my situation. I fell in love with a classmate in uni, me (23F) him (22M). I was his first gf, sex partner etc. We made it official and dated about 7 months but were already close before that naturally. Oh well then he suddenly got distant and did the whole break up thing - i care about you but dont love you and see no future together etc.. I did have panic attack but then said I understood him and dont want to force him into anything. Did NC for week or two but then made deals to meet up and have a discussion as again we share the same group and i feel like it is better to deal with this now with the mind set if u love something let it go. I am just curious as we are both young and i feel like he needs to have some more time alone and grow as do I, would it be that out of the realm of possibility in the future for us to rekindle the love too by staying close friends. We share so much and If i attracted him once why wouldnt the better version of me be as attractive if not more?