chimmychu

Thank you. So i have been knowing this guy since 2019, but we did not date until this year. He is not the type of person to make a decision like that this fast. I don't know for sure, but i highly doubt that he just met this person at the end of July and decided to get engaged. I remembered the day he broke up with me and how cold and cut throat he was that day. He told me to get my life together, and asked me to reach out to him once i was ready, but he won't wait for me. When i look back at that conversation, I feel like he already had this person. I will for sure not be reaching out to him because that won't change anything.

Just wanted to do an update. last week it was my birthday and he reached out to say happy birthday, i just said thank you and the conversation ended there. This was the only interaction we had since we broke up in July. Today I was on social media and a mutual friend posted a picture of my ex and a woman congratulating them on their engagement. my knees felt weak and my chest started to hurt. Since July I had been blaming myself for how things ended only to find out today that the real reason I was dumped was because he was in a relationship with someone else he was planning to marry. A part of me wanted to message him, but i realized that there's no point in doing that. I feel so silly and stupid, but it will be well.

Well I am going to write because this might be a way to vent. I ended up speaking to him Tuesday and the conversation on that day was just as bad as the one we had the day prior. During our conversation I cried and some what begged him to not make such an impulsive decision, but nothing changed. After we ended the call i decided to delete his contact information. I figured that i had apologized enough and that was enough. I have not heard a thing from him since that day and I mentally prepared myself for that, but today i am just a bit sad. i know the relationship was short, but i guess it's a bit difficult to just pretend like a person did not exist in my life even if it was brief

I gave it to him because he kept asking for it. I never felt unsafe, he kept asking because he just never trusted me to begin with. I am now realizing that from the beginning I was constantly explaining myself

I see the flags. I hate that he is making me seem like i stabbed him in the back, but i will bow out. I apologized and that's all i can do. He never trusted me from the beginning

I have been transparent with him these past three months about my past, I provided him access to my location at all times. I messed up by not telling him this one thing and he flipped out. I was with him because i genuinely like him and we enjoy each other's company. When he's not angry he's not bad at all.

thank you for your sound advice through this. I am sad, but i'll backoff

The last time I spoke to him was in March until he reached out last week. I was holding a lot of hate in my heart for him and it bothered me. I thought maybe just talking to him would help me let it go.

My current boyfriend who broke up with me told me to reach out to him once I get my closure. I did apologize and told him that I understand his feelings towards me right now, the last thing he said to me before he hung up the phone today was to think about what I can do to regain his trust. to be honest i am not sure if I should just call him in a few days to talk about this or just send him an apology text and just let him be. Although i did wrong i did not think just breaking up with me like that was the answer. My current ex is an alfa male as he would like to say and he also has a huge ego and i am not sure how i can resolve this

Thank you so much, I would never give that man another chance because he kicked me while i was down. I have been angry and at some point suicidal because of this situation. I should've told him before it happened, but i guess that's the mistake i made.

This just happened and I did plan on telling him, I was trying to figure out how, but someone beat me to it. I am not at all making excuses for what I did, it was wrong I should've told him before that happened. I understand it's over, thanks for the advice

Thank you, quick question. Why do you feel like I should also block my current boyfriend( now ex)?

I have been In a relationship with this guy for the past 3 months. Today he broke up with me because I spoke to my ex. My ex broke up with me in February When i found out that i was pregnant with his child, basically once i told him I was pregnant he started mistreating me and told me to get an abortion. he was also telling people he had a vasectomy which made me look crazy to the public. I did not want an abortion, but i ended up miss carrying. My ex never checked on me, during this time, till this day he just thinks i had an abortion. Since February I struggled processing why someone would treat me like i was nothing the moment I found out i was pregnant. I had conversation with my current boyfriend ( I guess now ex) at the beginning of the relationship about this because he knows my ex. Anyways fast forward last week my ex called and asked if we can speak i said we could. He came to my house and he apologized for everything he had done to me during that time. I accepted the apology and let him know that i am now with someone else. my ex then went and told a friend of his about this conversation and that person told my current boyfriend before i got a chance to do this. My boyfriend broke up with me today because he feels like I betrayed him, he feels like i want to be with my ex, when all i wanted was to hash things out and just let go of that anger i held . What do i do now?